Getting Her Back – What Not To Do
If your girlfriend has broken up with you, and you are totally heartbroken, you may be wondering how you are going to go about getting her back.
You first have to think about what you have done to wrong her and find ways to fix it. If you can’t seem to find what you did wrong then take a look at this list of things that you shouldn’t do when you embark on getting her back. These will give you a general idea of what to do and what not to do.
Stop sending her emails and calling her none stop. Give yourself some time to cool down, and most important give her some time miss you. If you keep calling and sending her emails none stop, you’re not giving her any time to miss you, in fact this will only annoy her more. Don’t feel that you can’t live without her, because that’s a lie. Don’t think that just because you don’t call or email her right away, she will feel she is not important to you.
Stop arguing. Sometimes when you start a conversation with no intention to argue it can turn into an argument due to frustration. This will take a lot of self-control, but it will show her that you care enough to just walk away when an argument starts. This will show her that you don’t want to hurt her feelings. An even more difficult thing to do is to stop arguing and continue to talk to her. This tactic takes a lot more self-control; simply apologize for the argument and ask her to continue talking.
Stop being depressed! Seriously, it doesn’t matter how sad or heartbroken you feel, your ex-girlfriend isn’t going to show up at your door, and feel sorry for you. In fact it actually works against you, the more depressed you feel about yourself, the pathetic you’ll appear in her eye. Do you like to hang around with depressed people? No… Then why would she.
Don’t try to buy her love. This surely won’t help in getting her back. Yes, when your girl is upset and threatens to break up with you, you may want to buy her something. The truth is that she may take this the wrong way; she may think you are just getting these things not because you care……not because you want to take care of the problem, but because you just want the problem to go away. It is better for you to buy her things when you are in a good mood with each other.
Stop being your usual macho self when your aim is getting her back. Basically, just remember that she is the opposite sex. What you believe would be something that would win her back, might not be the actual reality. In fact that’s why most men fail at getting SECOND CHANGE with their ex, they do everything that they think would work. So if you don’t know if you’re doing the right thing on getting her back, then my advice is go out and get advice from someone who has.
If you follow the preceding advice you will have an excellent chance of getting her back. Remember, women do not want their relationships